From Sexting to Sayings: 15 Tips for Finding Your Dirty Talk Voice
The key to a good sexual experience isn’t pretending we aren’t all awkward freaks. What makes great sex is someone who is comfortable enough with themselves to know when something just didn’t land. Create anticipation.Part of the appeal of talking dirty is the anticipation of what’s to, well, come.
- Whether you’re whispering sweet nothings in your partner’s ear during foreplay or swearing like a trooper en route to a noisy orgasm, talking dirty can boost your sex life.
- “Love Language” by Juls and “Lemonade” by Ria Sean are songs that definitely put me in a mood.
- And I think that this also plays into why I like dirty talk, because it eases any anxiety that I am not desirable at that moment.
- Also, remember to not get in your head about it too much!
- What is it about erotic communication that increases our sexual arousal?
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Now that you know a few dirty talk examples, let’s explore why you need to do it. When you and your lover do bridge the distance, you can put all dirty talk texts to work in real life. Lucky for you, we’ve compiled the best dirty talk examples to add to your repertoire. If you are doing a role play, these incorporated props can be used here too. “For example, if the scenario involves ice play, ask your partner to have a cup of ice ready for directions. When you get to the part of the scene where ice will be used in the scenario, you can ask them to put the ice on them,” says Hauser.
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Or rehash old memories of the best sexual experiences you’ve had IRL, whether with your current partner or a previous one (though of course be conscientious of omitting details that could spark jealousy). Actually a great place for all beginners to start (especially if you’re shy) is to simply get more comfortable with platonic sexual communication, Horn says. Start talking more openly about your sex life with receptive friends. Just being more comfortable expressing your sexuality through language is a big step.
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- It can, however, be a great way to add some variety, increase eroticism, and help you and your partner connect in a totally new way.
- Here’s how to do it in a way that’s respectful — and sexy.
- Look down slightly with your head but keep your eyes on your partner.
- Dirty talk is something I’ve found myself being into but I don’t indulge in it mainly due to a lot of my existing anxieties.
Dirty talk phrases can also help you bring your fantasies to life and invite your partner into them. “Sharing our desires can help strengthen intimate bonds and trust,” says Nugent. Indeed, research has shown that those who communicate pleasure during sex are more likely to experience sexual satisfaction than those who do not communicate. And yet, in the heat of the sexual moment, dirty talk can be arousing for many—that is, if you know what dirty things to say during sex to get you and your partner going (more on that below). Dirty talk is usually thought of as something that occurs during partnered sex, but it can actually occur anytime, anywhere—with or without an audience.
Something about listening to a hot Irish guy telling you he wants you… it makes me giggle and also feel loved. I deal with a lot of stress at work and home (we have a 3-year-old and 1-year-old) and I can sometimes be “in my head” during sex, you know, just thinking about random unsexy things. Dirty talk helps bring me into the present by focusing on and talking about what’s physically happening.






Alfonso Moraleja Juárez es Doctor en Filosofía y Ciencias de la Educación por la Universidad Autónoma de Madrid y Graduado en Ciencias Políticas por la UNED. En la actualidad, dirige en la Universidad Autónoma de Madrid la publicación de Filosofía y Letras Cuaderno Gris. Compagina la docencia en el IES Joan Miró con la de alumnos de altas capacidades (PEAC) y con los alumnos del Master MESOB en la UAM.